If you’re an old pro and totally comfortable with dirty talk, look her right in the eyes and say what’s on your mind. Your directness might make her blush, but it will also turn her on. Move your eyes all over her body as if you’re drinking her up with your eyes and then say something else.
Soft Core Dirty Talk
Soft core naughty talk is for a beginner, a person who isn’t comfortable yet with dirtier chatter, or those who just prefer a less filthy discourse in the bedroom. It can include compliments to your partner, loving words, and mild dirty talk that doesn’t pass over into the vulgar side. Here are some great examples to get you started:
Compliments
“You’re so sexy.”
“I love when you touch me like that.”
“That feels so good.”
“You’re so good at (x).”
“I love what you can do with your mouth.”
“It turns me on so much when you look at me like that.”
“I love that, don’t stop.”
“God, you’re amazing”
Questions/Feedback
“Do you like that?”
“Show me what you like.”
Instructions
“Touch yourself (there).”
“Touch me”
“Kiss me”
“Suck me”
“Do whatever you want to me, I’m yours.”
“Don’t stop, I’m almost there, keep going”
“Take off your clothes, I want to see your beautiful body.”
Describing what’s happening or what you’re going to do
“I’m going to make love to you all night long.”
“I want to make you cum.”
Hard Core Dirty Talk
The types of discourse in hard core dirty talk isn’t so different than soft core. You will still give compliments, questions and feedback, give instructions, and describe what’s happening or what’s going on, but you will just use different words to do so. You might use swear words or slang to really get your point across and even if the idea is the same it will be expressed much more explicitly. Here are some examples of hard core dirty talk to get you started:
Compliments
“You’re so fucking hot.”
“You taste amazing.”
“You are delicious.”
“You get me harder than I have ever been before.”
Questions/Feedback
“I bet you like that, don’t you?”
“Tell me about your dirtiest fantasy.”
“Tell me what you want me to do to you.”
“Tell me what you think about when you masturbate, you dirty girl.”
“Do you like watching me touch myself?”
“Do you like being fucked like that?”
“I’m your slave. Tell me what you want me to do.”
“Do you like my dick? Tell me what you like about it.”
Instructions
“Don’t say a word. I’m going to fuck you until you cum so hard you can’t stand it.”
“Flip over so I can see your sexy ass while I fuck you.”
“Get over here and ride me hard.
“I want you to touch yourself while I watch.”
“Tell me where you want me to cum. Inside your pussy? On your tits? In your mouth? On your face? You decide.”
“Suck me off, NOW.”
“Spread your legs.”
“Beg me for it.”
Describing what’s happening or what you’re going to do
“You’re going to take my rock hard cock.”
“I’m going to fuck you so good the neighbors are going to call the cops.”
“You’re so fucking wet.”
“You’ve been a bad girl and you need to be punished.”
“I could spend hours between your legs tasting you.”
Note: You need to know your partner and what she likes before getting into hard core dirty talk. Some women will love it and others might be turned off by it, so it’s definitely worth communicating about preferences beforehand.
Some men and women might like dirty talk to get even more hard core than the examples above. They might like using stronger words like slut, bitch, or whore and get really explicit. Some men might like to be talked down to or ordered around in the bedroom. While some people who aren’t into this might think it is disrespectful, it’s actually just sex play. It’s like a game and it doesn’t necessarily reflect the relationship that those people have outside of the bedroom.
That being said, if your partner prefers soft core chat and you like it hard core, you won’t be able to convince her that it’s just play. You can’t change what turns her on and off, you just have to accept it.
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